Why would anyone want a burden? You have to make yourself a prize before he can see you as one. What exactly are you giving him to work for? What would he gain from making the extra effort? Encourage the tiny things. Think of it as practice for the big things. Would you “long” to be with someone who always made you feel like poop? What makes you think he’s any different?
If you are a prize then it will make him feel more important. Like he’s a man. Ouch. There in lies the reason why you have to take care of yourself in order to take care of someone else. You can’t spend your time waiting for someone else to make life worth living. Emotions are contagious. Spread the emotions you want to be around. If you’re always cranky so will others. If you're happy, others will be too.
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